Hair problem!!?

everytime i take a shower and go to sleep (hair still wet) it comes out weird and curly and puffy looking when i wake up and combing it does not do anything. ( i have to go to places so quick easy tips, please.) anyways, thats one problem and its starting to get on my nerves.. another one is that when i blow dry my hair, it poofs up. and it looks realy weird. and its gets all frizzy, too. and then it gets tangly when i go to sleep and wake up.